Other people's opinions of you are none of your business and also not your job.

I wrote a piece for The Good Men Project on the difference between what other people think of you and what you have to act on. Most of those opinions aren’t yours to carry, and a few practical behavioral strategies to help sort out which ones are. You can read it here:

https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/other-peoples-opinions-of-you-are-none-of-your-business-and-also-not-your-job-kpkn/